Meet the Geronimos: Descendants Talk About Living With the Legacy

Photo by Kerri Cottle Robert Geronimo, a descendant of Geronimo, works at the Inn of the Mountain Gods, the tribe’s resort and casino in Mescalero, New Mexico. He became aware of his famous ancestor when he was in kindergarten.

Their Apache ancestors were chased, hunted and herded into history.

Shaped by decades of war, Geronimo, Cochise, Victorio, Lozen and Mangas Coloradas (and those they ran with) cultivated a genius for survival so their descendants could live on.

But live on, how? By letting the ancestral legacy of greatness and distinction define them, or by wearing the identity lightly? For the living descendants of the Geronimo family of Mescalero, New Mexico, the answer is both.

The first time Robert Geronimo became aware of his famous ancestor was in kindergarten.

“A kid comes up to me and says ‘I want to beat up a Geronimo.’ I said ‘I haven’t done anything to you, you haven’t done anything to me.’ The kid threw a punch and I returned it,” he explained, “and we both ended up in the principal’s office.”

From then on his grandparents taught him to read between the lines of accounts of his great-grandfather as a blood-thirsty killing machine, or even as a “chief” leading his people.

“It wasn’t a dictatorship, everyone there had a say in deciding what was going to happen,” Robert explained, “including the women. Caught between the Caucasian and Mexican forces, they had no choice but to fight. There was nowhere else to go.”

Robert holds a degree in math and computer science from Western New Mexico University in Silver City, and works in the Human Resources Department at the Inn of the Mountain Gods, the tribe’s resort and casino in Mescalero, New Mexico. His specialty is statistics, and he’s responsible for filing unemployment claims. There may be the occasional boring day, but he’s grateful to have shepherded his offspring to maturity.

“Geronimo had six wives and many children, but our line was the only one not killed,” Robert said.

His own son, Robert Samson, operates the mountain resort’s zipline and is happy with his job, even when guests sometimes scream “Ger-on-i-m-o!” as they’re flying through the air. “He just laughs, he’s cool with it,” his father said. Daughter Kristalynn Rose is a senior at the Art Institute in Phoenix, majoring in game design. Eldest Lauren Marie is mother to his 3-year-old grandson Wyatt McKinzey, and works in the Inn’s housekeeping department. Her passion is beading, learned from her grandmother.

As his kids were growing up, during car trips around the Southwest or at the holiday dinner table, Robert conveyed the main point about his family’s legacy: “We never wanted war, but we were exceptionally good at it.” And he insists they never surrendered. “The only reason they came in was because the cavalry threatened to kill everyone. And with good reason, they believed them.”

In Robert’s view Geronimo didn’t stop being a leader after imprisonment, quite the opposite.

“He became the best leader of all when he was in prison, a peacekeeper. Apaches wanted to tear each other apart because some had been scouts for the cavalry,” he explained. “Geronimo pacified them, told them ‘the past is the past.’”

If Robert could speak with his famous ancestor, he’d tell him: “Be proud, we’re still here, we’re not gone, we’re still alive and doing decently well.”

At 21, Hope Geronimo (Robert’s niece) is the youngest medicine woman among all the Mescalero Apache women, and she wonders if she’s received some of her ancestor’s spiritual gifts.

“He was somebody who had visions, I think I do sometimes,” she said. “I call out something and next thing you know, it happens.”

It feels to Hope as if her tribe’s traditional practices “picked her” and while she embraces that honor, the gift comes at a social cost.

“Something I’ve noticed, people have gotten scared of me. There’s times I can feel something’s going to happen, and when it does people freak out on me. So I’m quiet, I won’t say anything, keep it to myself. But I think that was something passed on from him.”

Photo by Kerri Cottle

Hope Geronimo, a descendant of Geronimo and Robert’s niece, is the youngest medicine woman among all the Mescalero Apache women.

Hope would not hesitate to seek him out as a teacher. “I have so many questions about everything, and he would explain it all to me.”

Her grandparents always taught her that Geronimo wasn’t primarily a leader—he was a medicine man. They also instructed her to include him in her prayers.

“Now that he’s a spirit, he’s a really powerful medicine man. I ask him to help guide me.”

It’s the tribe’s tradition to name a boy child after his father, so her son will not carry the name forward. “But he has Geronimo’s blood in him, no matter what anyone has to say.”

The dream Hope most dreams for her son is that he too will be involved in traditional practices. “On his dad’s side, the family owns a Crown Dancing troupe. I want him to be part of that. And with me doing this, and doing it more, he’ll always be with me.”

Hope doesn’t deny that she conducts both her parental and medicine woman duties with a grave sense of responsibility.

“I wouldn’t want to be a disappointment to my ancestors,” she said.

Keep an eye on ICTMN.com for stories about descendants of Cochise, Victorio, Lozen and Mangas Coloradas.

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lordegeorge
lordegeorge

I am Geronimo's great great great great grandson.

Jeronimoe
Jeronimoe

Blessings to you and Robert Hope Geronimo. I will be heading to Mescalero in December. I pray Creator allows me to meet you all there. Ashoge.

Apachewolfman
Apachewolfman

Hello all ! Glad to be here . This is for Robert Geronimo, my great great great grandmother was supposed to have been one of Geronimo's daughters. Her name was Theodosha Minter

Glojane
Glojane

What happened to my reply??

jess4u
jess4u

Hello! My name is Jessica. I have been having alot of dreams of an old indian man trying to write something out to me. Then one of my friends reached out to me and told me i look just like Hope. I am her twin. 4 generation of grandfathers are named Geronimo. Who can help me find out if im realted to him.

Kuno1988
Kuno1988

So I was always told by my family that we also are blood line to geronimo my family is from chihuahua my grandmother had said that her mother was a child of his and that he is my great grandfather I recently took a ancestry test it says 43 percent native American the more I look into it the more I believe that I am from el paso and funny part is mascalero is not far from me I been to the reservation once I am am an emt and so I go places and I am curious to know if I really am one great grand daughter of geronimo because my father would be his grandson as well but only blood would tell but who knows

Sparkiegal
Sparkiegal

I have an original piece of artwork of Chief Geronimo that was found in one of the homes that I purchased. I am trying to locate the tribe, the family of Geronimo, or the artist to show you this picture and give it the right direction to be housed in thank you

Petespena
Petespena

Hello back when I was a kid in 1975 I visited with my great grandmother. She told me and my brother that she remembered as little girl she was afraid of the Apache. She said her mother had been from the Apache and had been given to her father. She was raised around Abilene Texas where I was born. She said that her mother fled the area when hostile Indians from another tribe raided their home. My DNA comes back 48 percent native American Indian from the same area as the chricaua. Most of my family still live where my great grandmother grew up as a native American Indian. My mother chose to leave in Idaho where I grew up and live. Thanks

SandraLynnMacias
SandraLynnMacias

Blessings to you! I´d love to learn more about Geronimo´s families. It is stated that my Great Grandmother used to say she was related to him. I´ve not found any information leading there yet. If anyone would like to share their tree, you may do so at: s.macias347@gmail.com

djthompson
djthompson

Hi my name is Deborah Thompson. My husband and I bought five of Geronimo Garduno's paintings in the mid-80's. We could not find out who signed the paintings Geronimo but loved the stylized artwork of Native American Indian women. Finally Jennie Lusk from The Albuquerque Museum sent us a write up on him. If anyone has more information please reply.



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